10 Spiritual Goals to Have and How to Work Toward Them

We set goals for our careers, our homes, our health and our finances. Why wouldn’t we then set spiritual goals?

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A WORK IN PROGRESS

As a child I was shy and withdrawn, insecure and anxious. I was a sensitive kid that was afraid of the dark and meeting new people. But I loved to teach my younger brother, read funny books, write stories, make crafts and create neighborhood clubs.

When I grew older, my talents grew, as did my weaknesses. With big changes came bigger challenges. Marrying young and living across the country from my family, death of my mother-in-law, post-partum depression, a chronic illness and an aggressive toddler.

I walked through many days of confusion and exhaustion, until I learned that even doctors have their limits on how much they can help. I learned in each of these areas, that my spiritual growth had to be part of the equation. Learning to trust, leaning to hope, learning to pray.

Even in my talents, came trials.

After I got a job teaching second grade, I thought my biggest worry would be classroom management. It ended up being things like dealing with CPS, a year where 60% of my kids had recently gone through divorce, or two of my kids losing their parents during the time in my class.

Again I had to turn to my Father, the only one who could give me true peace and wisdom in a world where things often don’t make sense.

LEARNING TO LET GO OF CONTROL

Life is so much more complicated as an adult than it was as a child.

Some things can be helped from self-help books or experience. Others can be helped through community, such as a friend reaching out, or a doctor prescribing medicine. But some come at a harder price. Complete surrender. Loss of control in a situation where the only option you have left is to give it to God.

Life is full of twists and turns and lessons we may have never wanted to learn in the way we did. And so, as I train myself to grow in the ways God calls me to, I find myself taking my problems to Him much faster and with much more trust than I have in the past.

GROWING IN FAITH

No matter where you are in this journey, you my friend, need to set some spiritual goals. We set goals for our careers, our health and our finances. Why wouldn’t we then set them for our spirituality–the one thing we claim matters the most in life?

When I need to grow in confidence, I focus on surrender and study. When I need to grow in positivity and hope, I focus on prayer and worship.

Where are you struggling? Set your goals in these areas and look for ways God is growing you spiritually. Don’t see your trials as a roadblock, but as an opportunity.

Ready to get started? Me too!

10 AREAS FOR SPIRITUAL GROWTH

1. CELEBRATION/WORSHIP

“His praise shall be continually in my mouth.” Psalm 34:1

2. CONFESSION/FORGIVENESS

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins.” 1 John 1:9

  • Repent of a sin and list tangible ways to improve
  • Find a mentor or accountability partner to encourage you
  • Attend counseling to work through forgiveness issues

3. FASTING/SACRIFICE

“She never left the temple but worshipped night and day, fasting and praying.” Luke 2:37

  • Fast from a type of technology (TV, social media, phone)
  • Cut out food indulges (sweets, carbs)
  • Fast from spending money (impulse buys, extra purchases, treats)
  • Take a break from a hobby (use the time in study and prayer)

4. FELLOWSHIP/COMMUNITY

“They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” Acts 2:42

  • Host a get together with family or friends
  • Join a small group at church
  • Join a women’s Bible study
  • Pray with others

5. GUIDANCE/TRUST

“Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.” Psalm 25:5

  • Commit to reading your Bible daily
  • Commit to daily prayer
  • Seek out spiritual mentors at your church
  • Fast and pray over a specific decision

6. MEDITATION/STUDY

“Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Joshua 1:8

7. PRAYER/RELATIONSHIP

“Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.” Jeremiah 29:12

  • Pray as a family at the dinner table
  • Pray during an activity (brushing teeth, in traffic)
  • Read a book about prayers
  • Pray with your kids at bedtime
  • Write your prayers in a journal
  • Ask for and keep track of prayer requests

8. SECRECY/SOLITUDE

“Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them…when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets…do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” Matthew 6:1-4

  • Give money to a homeless person
  • Buy the meal for the person behind you in the drive thru
  • Participate in Toys for Tots, MAGI boxes, or Angel Tree
  • Go on a personal retreat to read, fast and pray

9. SERVICE/COMPASSION

“Do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.” Galatians 5:13

  • Visit a nursing home (teach something, play music, pass out cards)
  • Bring cookies to a Fire/Police Station
  • Buy/make items for kids in the hospital
  • Bring a meal or help clean a sick person’s home

10. STILLNESS/SURRENDER

“Be still and know that I am God.” Psalm 46:10

  • Wake early to spend quiet time with God
  • Go somewhere to sit still and enjoy nature
  • Let the little things go
  • Have a tech free day and be present with your family

SET ONE SPIRITUAL GOAL RIGHT NOW

Pick ONE area that sticks out to you the most right now. Then write down the action steps you need to get there. Work your way through them. Then move onto the next, building and growing in your spiritual walk. Click the image to print your goal sheet:

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What I Learned About Simplifying from “The Year of Less”

Grab my notes from “The Year of Less” and see what Cait Flanders has to teach us about the blessing of living with less.

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A FEW THOUGHTS ON IMPULSE BUYING…

Ok, I admit it. I have a problem. I’m an impulse buyer.

Cute little throw pillow? Gotta have it.

Another comfy sweater jacket? Already in the cart.

Came here for groceries? Can’t wait for the candy aisle.

My closets are overflowing, we’re running low on storage space, yet I complain that all I do all day is clean my house. I spend so much time organizing my things, picking up toys, and folding clothes while thinking, we have too much stuff.

Yet, I buy more.

I especially get into this funk this time of year, right after our Christmas present haul and right before taxes are due.

I’m looking forward to spring cleaning, but seriously, how did we accumulate so much stuff?

THE YEAR OF LESS

Cait Flanders had some similar thoughts, but her experiment with her own year-long shopping ban was prompted by her own personal debt. I picked up “The Year of Less” thinking it would be a Marie Kondo type book of decluttering, but it was so much more than that — it was a memoir of how her previous victory over alcoholism only emerged in new destructive shopping habits. Throughout the book she learns how to deal with stress in ways that are healthier for her mind and body.

I learned a lot about myself through reading her story; she challenged me to think about the choices I make and set goals for what I want to do with my time and money.

When she realized how often she binge watched TV and mindlessly scrolled through social media, she began being creating better habits. She replaced her TV time with TED Talks, podcasts and audiobooks – something that she thought she didn’t have time for. If there was a documentary or movie she wanted to watch, she planned for it, instead of flipping through trying to find something to watch.

By the end of her year-long experiment, she learned to live on 51% of her income, saved 31% and spent 18% on travel that she thought she couldn’t afford.

I love the lessons she learned along her journey of buying less and being more intentional about her habits and lifestyle. An inspirational read with a lot of practical tips! Here are my favorite parts from the book:

MY NOTES FROM “THE YEAR OF LESS” BY CAIT FLANDERS

“I wanted to get to a place where I bought things only when I needed them. I wanted to finally see where my money was going and budget in a way that aligned with my goals and my values. And I really wanted to start spending less and saving more. But it would never happen if I continued to make mindless spending decisions.”

-CAIT FLANDERS, THE YEAR OF LESS

Why Do a Ban?

  1. Committing to slowing down
  2. Finding out what you really want, rather than acting on impulse
  3. Being a more mindful consumer

Things to Take a Break From

  • Unhealthy food
  • Take-out
  • Clothes shopping
  • Buying decorative items
  • Purchasing things you already own
  • Social media
  • TV

Things to Replace Them With

  • Gardening
  • Hiking
  • Exploring your city
  • Cooking instead of eating out
  • Traveling

“The toughest part of not being able to buy anything new wasn’t that I couldn’t buy anything new — it was having to physically confront my triggers and change my reaction to them.”

-CAIT FLANDERS, THE YEAR OF LESS

Questions to Help Decide What to Keep

  1. Have you used this recently?
  2. Do you plan to use this soon?
  3. Are you really going to use it?

Tips for Shopping

  • Only buy things when you need them, not because they’re on sale
  • Carefully consider your purchases, don’t be impulsive
  • Only buy books if you know you’ll read them right away

“[Minimalism/simple living] reminded me of what my childhood had looked like. I pictured my feet back in the soil, the kitchen table covered in homemade pie crust, and the cupboard chock-full of canned fruit. I wanted that again. I needed that again.”

-CAIT FLANDERS, THE YEAR OF LESS

Cait’s 10 Tips for Creating Your Own Shopping Ban:

  1. Declutter your home: get rid of anything that doesn’t serve a purpose in your life
  2. Take inventory: write down things you use the most in each room, don’t buy the top five items during the ban
  3. Write 3 lists:
    • Essentials (can buy whenever you run out)
    • Non-essentials (not allowed to buy during the ban)
    • Approved shopping list (specifics you’re allowed to buy)
  4. Unsubscribe from all store newsletters/social media
  5. Set up shopping ban savings account: deposit certain amount each month from things you cut out
  6. Tell everyone you know: the more people you tell, the more likely you’ll stick to it
  7. Replace costly habits with free/cheap alternatives
  8. Pay attention to your triggers and change your reactions: replace bad habits with good habits
  9. Learn to live without: become more resourceful (borrow, fix, rent)
  10. Appreciate what you have: talk positively about the ban, stay mindful

“The truth, I was learning, was that we couldn’t actually discover what we needed until we lived without it…Not having cable freed up time I used to complete my degree, start my blog, change careers, and start freelancing on the side. And even with all that, I managed to get outside, go hiking with friends, and spend more time with the people I loved.”

-CAIT FLANDERS, THE YEAR OF LESS

Tips for Backsliding

  • Be aware that small slips can turn into a downward spiral
  • Don’t let one mistake ruin all your hard work — forgive yourself and move on
  • Learn from your mistakes
  • You can always return or cancel orders!
  • Tell someone to help with accountability

Ways to Minimize Advertisements in Your Life

  • Get rid of cable and use a streaming service
  • Stop following retail on social media
  • Unsubscribe from shopping emails

“When you want less, you consume less–and you also need less money.”

-CAIT FLANDERS

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My Favorite Tools for Goal Setting

Here are my top 10 must haves when it comes to goal setting and implementing them in to my daily routine.

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TOOLS FOR GOAL SETTING

I’m an organizer at heart, so my home is filled with labels, baskets and schedules. So when it comes to goals, I have a few favorite tools for goal setting that I always go to in helping me organize my thoughts and execute a plan.

1. A SIMPLE TO DO LIST PAD

These are by far my favorite. Simple, to the point and ready to rock and roll. Plus I love the old-school design.

2. A GOOD SET OF HIGHLIGHTERS

I always come back to these Sharpies. They are the brightest, last a long time, and I probably own more highlighters than pens. Every time I finish a task, I get a nerdy rush highlighting it off my list.

3. A SMOOTH PEN TO GET THE JOB DONE

Lately, I’ve found that pens with that weird squishy thing on the end (I guess it’s used for a stylus) write the smoothest. I jump back and forth on which pens are my favorite, but currently, these are the front-runners.

4. POST-ITS FOR YOUR TOP 3 GOALS

I know this is so basic, but seriously, I can’t live without my Post-its. I use them mostly to write my top 3 of the day. Each morning, I take 2 Post-its, write:

  • WORK 1. 2. 3.
  • PERSONAL 1. 2. 3.

Then I fill out the 3 main tasks in each category I want to accomplish that day.

5. DRY ERASE MARKERS FOR YOUR BATHROOM MIRROR

I write on my mirror all the time for reminders, motivational quotes, and habit tracking. Write 1-21 on your mirror and cross off each day you meet your goal. They say it takes 21 days in a row to develop a good habit, but feel free to set your own number or goal parameters. (Who are “they” anyway?)

6. A PRETTY WALL CALENDAR

Maybe you like dry erase calendars, or a simple yearly overview, but have something on the wall to refer to when you need to track something. Having everything digital can be a pain especially when you just want to look up the date and end up jumping over to Facebook.

7. TRELLO APP FOR A BRAIN DUMP

Speaking of digital, I fight the urge to use a digital calendar, because I am always drawn back to good old pencil and paper. However, my office is littered with bits of paper, scraps of ideas and jumbled lists. Last month, I discovered Trello boards (Ok I know I’m behind the times on this one) and spent two days straight organizing these amazing little boards. I use them for meal planning, cleaning checklists, editorial calendars, medical information—you name it. Consider it your brain organized in an app.

8. MONTHLY PLANNER

I can’t seem to get on board with updating a daily calendar, but monthly calendars are my jam. I use a planner that simply contains two years of monthly calendars and write down everything I can think of, and for day to day tasks, refer to my to do list pad that I add to as needed.

9. SPECIFIC GOAL PLANNERS

Every once in awhile I need a little help in organizing my thoughts when it comes to goal setting and about twice a year, I re-evaluate where I’m at and where I want to go. These are great motivational tools for getting the job done.

10. WHITE BOARD FOR INSPIRATION

I use my white board in my office to write out my goals and the progress I’m making on them. Some days I feel like I’m doing great, others I don’t feel like I’ve gone backwards. Having a board or even a piece of paper that tracks your progress on a long term goal can be the perfect motivator to help you see small milestones you’ve reached along the way to help you power through.

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